How do I come out of the closet?

Do you honestly think you're going to go to hell for something you couldn't choose to be? I'm sure you're a great, loving person. Don't listen to those worthless Christians who try to shove things into your head about ity being a sin. Just worry about yourself and who you're comfortable with being. You should tell them when you're ready and confident enough and have the strength. It's difficult. It really, really is, I know. You only have one life, might as well live it to its fullest and actually be happy about who you are. Damn, I don't know about you, but I'd rather go to hell than live my life in denial, trying to be something I'm not. Good luck, bud. =]