Is Burnout 3 Takedown or Burnout Revenge better?

I know Revenge is knewer with more game modes and more people like it better than Burnout 3, but for some reason Burnout 3 is rated teen and burnout revenge is 10+, even though Burnout Revenge is supposed to be a little darker. Since Burnout 3 is teen does it mean that it has a lot better and realisic crashes? Which one should I get?